Emotions and Partner Phubbing: The Role of Understanding and Validation in Predicting Anger and Loneliness

Interactions between romantic partners may be disturbed by problematic mobile phone use, i.e., phubbing. Research shows that phubbing reduces the ability to be responsive, but emotional aspects of phubbing, such as experiences of anger and loneliness, have not been explored. Anger has been linked to partner blame in negative social interactions, whereas loneliness has been associated with low social acceptance. Moreover, two aspects of partner responsiveness, understanding and validation, refer to the ability to recognize partner’s perspective and convey acceptance of their point of view, respectively. High understanding and validation by partner have been found to prevent from negative affect during social interaction. The impact of understanding and validation on emotions has not been investigated in the context of phubbing, therefore we posit the following exploratory hypotheses. (1) Participants will report higher levels of anger and loneliness on days with phubbing by partner, compared to days without; (2) understanding and validation will moderate the relationship between phubbing intensity and levels of anger and loneliness. We conducted a daily diary study over seven days. Based on a sample of 133 participants in intimate relationships and living with their partners, we analyzed the nested within and between-person data using multilevel models. Participants reported higher levels of anger and loneliness on days they experienced phubbing. Both, understanding and validation, buffer the relationship between phubbing intensity and negative experiences, and the interaction effects indicate certain nuances between the two constructs. Our research provides a unique insight into how specific mechanisms related to couple interactions may explain experiences of anger and loneliness.